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-        Jesus

- Matthew 25: 31-46

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Expert: Child traffickers target runaways, 'throwaways'

By Eliott C. McLaughlin, CNN

November 18, 2009 1:48 p.m. EST

Police say Shaniya Davis, 5, was sold into prostitution by her mother.

STORY HIGHLIGHTS

  • Mother accused of selling daughter highlights domestic human-trafficking trade
  • Expert: Selling children rare in U.S.; traffickers usually exploit vulnerable, homeless children
  • Recent FBI operations have yielded about 2,300 arrests, recovery of 170 children
  • Examples include couple accused of kidnapping teen, forcing her to turn tricks

Who killed 5-year-old Shaniya Davis? Her mother is charged with human trafficking, and many questions remain about what happened. Watch "Nancy Grace" as she digs deeper, tonight at 8 on HLN.

(CNN) -- It sounds like the plot of a crime drama or the scourge of a developing country, but human trafficking is a serious problem in the U.S. and America's children are frequent pawns, experts say.

The case of Antoinette Nicole Davis, a North Carolina mother accused of selling her 5-year-old daughter, Shaniya, into prostitution, highlights one of the most heinous -- albeit rare -- forms of trafficking within the U.S.

Davis faces numerous charges, including human trafficking, felony child abuse and prostitution. Mario Andrette McNeill has been charged with kidnapping in the case after police said a surveillance camera captured images of him and Shaniya at a hotel in Sanford.

Polaris Project, a nonprofit organization that studies human trafficking, has more frequently seen cases in which children were sold by family members "out of desperation in developing countries" such as Cambodia or sub-Saharan African nations, said executive director and CEO Mark Lagon.

"But it happens sometimes here," he said.

More common in the United States are traffickers who exploit abused runaways or so-called "throwaways" -- children abandoned by their parents and living on the streets, Lagon said.

"The trafficker plays the role of a father or loverboy who is offering care to the child, who is vulnerable," he said, explaining that what begins as flattery and attention often turns to suggestions of prostitution.

The child, typically homeless and in need of food and shelter, can be manipulated into "survival sex," Lagon said. In other instances, the trafficker or pimp will get the child hooked on drugs and use their addiction as leverage.  

Named for the North Star that guided slaves along the Underground Railroad, Polaris Project works to stamp out the global trade in humans.

Lagon, formerly the State Department's director of the Office to Monitor and Combat Trafficking in Persons, said it's a tough fight because there is a dearth of "good statistics" on human trafficking and it's not a crime in which victims readily come forward.

But the news is replete with reports on major rings being busted. The FBI did not return messages to discuss human trafficking, but news releases from the agency's Innocence Lost initiative show that in the past 18 months, four stings -- dubbed Operations Cross Country I, II, III and IV -- have yielded about 2,300 arrests and the recovery of about 170 children.

"We may not be able to return their innocence, but we can remove them from this cycle of abuse and violence," FBI Director Robert Mueller said in a statement after a February bust.

Specific examples also abound. In August, two bar owners and a manager in Long Island, New York, were charged with sex trafficking and alien harboring with victims as young as 17. A few days later, a husband and wife in Orange County, Florida, were charged with kidnapping a 15-year-old at gunpoint and forcing her to turn tricks.

In September, a U.S. Army private and three other men were indicted on charges of running a sex-trafficking businesses from a Millersville, Maryland, apartment. One of the prostitutes was 16.

No pleas have been entered in the Florida or Maryland cases. The three defendants in Long Island have pleaded not guilty.

While prostitution is a common impetus for trafficking children, Lagon said there are numerous examples of young men and women being forced into domestic servitude. Many times, he said, those victims are sexually abused as well.

This is something that deserves decades in prison.
--Mark Lagon, Polaris Project executive director and CEO

Though statistics on the depth of domestic trafficking are difficult to ascertain, the University of Pennsylvania conducted a study in 2001 showing that between 244,000 and 325,000 American children were at risk of sexual exploitation, including child pornography, juvenile prostitution and trafficking children for sexual purposes.

The average age of a female victim's first involvement in prostitution, according to the study, was between 12 and 14.

"That, shockingly, means a number get in when they're incredibly young, and that's all the more horrifying," Lagon said.

Lagon said he was impressed with federal initiatives and believes "it's great the FBI has more and more focused on trying to save prostituted children as sex trafficking victims."

The only caveat to his praise, he said, is a concern that adults swept up in raids are sometimes charged as prostitutes when they, too, may have been subjected to coercion or pulled into the trade as minors.

The onus is on society and government to stop the trafficking of American children, he said. Citizens should pay attention to signals that something is amiss with a child and be careful not to "sneer or stigmatize" when they see a prostituted teen.

Government, meanwhile, should toughen its punishments for child trafficking and more actively target the "johns" and pimps who make the trade possible, according to Lagon.

"That person has to be punished like they've committed a crime akin to slavery. This is something that deserves decades in prison," he said.

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Beaten for Wearing a Bra

Beaten for Not Wearing Socks

Beaten for Not Wearing Headscarves That They Can’t Afford

Somali women beaten for violating Islamic law, officials say

By Mohammed Amiin Adow, for CNN

 (CNN) -- Militants who control parts of Somalia's capital city are beating women in broad daylight for violating their radical brand of Islamic law, according to local officials and witnesses in Mogadishu.

"Just today, Al-Shabaab dispatched men with whips to the streets around Bakara market and they are flogging any woman who is found not wearing socks," according to a female maize trader at the Mogadishu market, who spoke Thursday.

In the past two days, more than 130 people, including women who were not wearing headscarves and men chewing dried khat leaves, have been detained for violating Al-Shabaab's interpretation of sharia, or Islamic law, according to witnesses and officials.

Hooded Al-Shabaab gunmen rounded up 50 women on Wednesday from Mogadishu's Bakara market for not wearing the veil that is required for women under some interpretations of Islamic law, according to the maize trader.

"Most of these women were vegetable traders, so they are poor and can't afford to buy veils for 600,000 shillings [about $23 U.S.]," she said.

Earlier this month, Al-Shabaab militants whipped women for wearing bras in an area of northern Mogadishu that they control, shocking residents who have been besieged by the ongoing insurgency. The militants believe the female undergarments are a deception to men.

 

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Notice:

Women in the US

The following is a letter to send to your congressman to support the International Violence Against Women Act.

 

Dear Congress,

 

We call on you to support the International Violence Against Women Act (I-VAWA), a groundbreaking piece of legislation that would incorporate and make consistent efforts to reduce violence against women and girls in U.S. foreign assistance programs.

 

Violence against women is a cause of poverty and a huge barrier to women's economic opportunity - it can keep women from getting an education, working, and earning the income they need to lift their families out of poverty. Moreover, research has shown that giving women in poor countries economic opportunity empowers them to escape and prevent violent situations. In Kerala, India, for example, a study showed that only 7 percent of women who owned property suffered from physical violence, compared to 49 percent of women with no property. The United Nations Development Fund for Women estimates that one in three women around the world will be beaten or abused in her lifetime. If the U.S. wants its efforts to reduce poverty to be as effective as possible, this has got to stop.

 

By promoting women's economic opportunity, addressing violence against girls in school, encouraging legal reform, working to change public attitudes, and supporting health programs and survivor services, especially in crisis situations, the I-VAWA could have a huge impact on improving the effectiveness of our foreign assistance programs and reducing poverty.

 

Women in poor countries already face enough barriers to lifting their families out of poverty. Violence should not be one of them. Please join us in supporting women's opportunity worldwide by supporting the International Violence Against Women Act.

 

Sincerely,

 

http://www.womenthrive.org/index.php?option=com_wrapper&Itemid=133

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RUNNING IN THE SHADOWS
Recession Drives Surge in Youth Runaways
By IAN URBINA
As more families face economic hardships, experts have seen an increasing number of children leave home for life on the streets, including many under 13.

 

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Police: Gang rape outside school dance lasted over two hours

By Nick Valencia, CNN

October 27, 2009 8:56 a.m. EDT

(CNN) -- A California high school student who police said was gang raped in a two-and-a-half-hour assault outside a homecoming dance remained hospitalized in stable condition Monday, two days after she was flown from the attack scene in critical condition.

"Based on witness statements and suspect statements, and also physical evidence, we know that she was raped by at least four suspects committing multiple sex acts," Gagan said.

Investigators said as many as 15 people, all males, stood around watching the assault, but did not call police or help the victim, a 15-year-old student at Richmond High School in suburban San Francisco.

"As people announced over time that this was going on, more people came to see, and some actually participated," Gagan said.

"We have checked Facebook and YouTube to try to find any revealing evidence," he said. "We're looking in particular to see if anyone posted any video of the incident."

The victim was found unconscious and "brutally assaulted" under a bench shortly before midnight Saturday, after police received a call from someone in the area who had overheard people at the assault scene "reminiscing about the incident," Gagan said.

"This just gets worse and worse the more you dig into it," Gagan said. "It was like a horror movie after looking at the evidence. I can't believe not one person felt compelled to help her."

http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/10/27/california.gang.rape.investigation/index.html

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http://www.awid.org/eng/Issues-and-Analysis/Issues-and-Analysis/Grace-Ushang-s-Death-and-the-Indecent-Dressing-Bill

Grace Ushang’s Death and the Indecent Dressing Bill

by Asma’u Joda & Iheoma Obibi

Grace Ushang was a young Nigerian woman who had every right to expect a bright future. Now she is dead merely because she was female.

On the day that Nigeria celebrated its 49th Independence Anniversary on 1 October 2009, NEXT Newspaper reported that Ms. Ushang from Obudu in Cross River State, a member of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) serving in Maiduguri, Borno State, was raped to death by some men still at large, who, according to the story, “took offence because she was wearing her Khaki trousers – the official uniform of the youth corpers.”


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Ignored by society, Afghan dancing boys suffer centuries-old tradition

By Atia Abawi, CNN

October 26, 2009 7:43 p.m. EDT

Kabul, Afghanistan (CNN) -- A young boy dressed in women's clothing, his face caked in make-up, dances the night away for a crowd of men.

The bells on his feet chime away, mimicking the entertainment and sexual appeal of female dancers. But there is no mistaking his pubescent body and face as he concentrates, focusing on every step in order to please his master and his master's guests.

The boy is but one youth among many throughout the country forced into an age-old underground tradition known as "bacha bazi," or "boy play," in which young boys are taken from their families, made to dance and used as sex slaves by powerful men. The number of boys involved is unknown -- the practice has been going on for centuries, in a country where such practices are overshadowed by conflict and war.

It is widely known among the population that, most of the time it is commanders, high-ranking officials and their friends who partake in the abuse of the boys.

In Afghan society the victims of rape and assault --- both male and female --- are often persecuted and punished rather than the perpetrator. The shame forces boys to continue in leading such lifestyles, even when they have the chance to break away.

One boy said that he was taken from a party by four police officers one night and almost gang raped at the station Before their commander walked in and stopped the assault. But then, "He said if I wanted to be set free I should give him my money and my mobile," he said. "I had no real choice, so I gave him my money and mobile."

http://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/asiapcf/10/26/ctw.afghanistan.sex.trade/index.html?iref=mpstoryview

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Trafficking

Trafficking of people, particularly of children under 18, is a growing global problem. It has become a lucrative worldwide business run by criminal groups, with a global turnover exceeding US$10 billion, making it the third-biggest international criminal business after drugs and weapons. http://www.salvationarmy.org/ihq%5Cwww_sa.nsf/vw-issue/F2E8F16550A2461A80256EDD007A73DD?opendocument&id=0B976C67E8CF7C9D80256EDD006E3BB0

 

http://www.rightreality.com/articles/giving_slavery_no_place_to_hide.html

 

http://www.notforsalecampaign.org/

 

 

Female Infanticide

In India's southern state of Tamil Nadu, female infanticide is so frequent that all second daughters are known as 'the girl born for the burial pit'.

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mnmtKLQRh6g&feature=related

 

Desperately poor families routinely kill girl babies after birth for fear they can't afford to raise them or provide the extortionate dowry required by a groom's family. Pavati's husband killed her second daughter the day she was born. She went home to her father's house and didn't eat for a month following the death but with two other children she had to return to her tiny hut and carry on. Another baby, Hymera was luckier, brought to a safe house by her uncle despite fierce opposition from his neighbours. Now she is cared for by people who value her life. Teenage girls sit in a circle in a coconut grove discussing the strengths they will need as India's next generation of mothers. A report on the attempts of agencies, such as the Indian Council for Child Welfare, to stop infanticide through re-education, training of women and providing homes for unwanted girl babies. So far prosecuting local mothers for murder has done little more than punish the saddest victims of a social tragedy.

Produced by ABC Australia
Distributed by Journeyman Pictures

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NqXZGM_sfvA&feature=channel

 

Welcome to the Gujarat baby factory where over 50 women are carrying babies for wealthy Westerners. Is commercial surrogacy a valid way out of poverty or an excuse for the West to rip off the Third World?

 

India Widows - India

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CS8euwO4o8k&feature=channel

In many conservative Indian families, widows are seen as a liability. Cast out of the family home, they live the rest of their lives in poverty and isolation.

"She becomes a zero and all her powers are lost", states Dr Giri, explaining how some women's status change when their husband dies. With no where else to go, thousands come to Vrindavan, city of widows. It was the childhood home of Hindu God, Krishna, who championed downtrodden women. "They come here in search of death", explains Dr Giri, in the hope they will have a better afterlife

 

 

Illegal forced weddings still a reality in India

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gxdb5g6aQPQ&feature=related

REPORT : In the western Indian state of Rajasthan, forced weddings are frequent - with the brides sometimes as young as five. It's been an illegal practice since 2006, but families struggling to feed their children see little alternative.

Child brides invade the classrooms

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BGaCkcCl6Po&NR=1

About three weeks to go for class X board exams, an exuberant group of girls can't afford to waste any time. All of them have lost precious years of childhood in a marriage that thrust upon them responsibilities far beyond their age. Now none of them wears the mangalsutra and have broken the fetters to go back to school and rewrite their own destiny.

 

 

India a child marriage hub: UNICEF

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1y96gWPvb4I&NR=1

More than 40 per cent of the world's child marriages take place in India, even though the legal age for wedding is 18. A report by UNICEF highlights India's high rate of child marriage as a major reason for the large number of maternal and infant deaths.

 

Children for Sale - 04 Jun 07 - Part 1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=19gUiVcE49E&NR=1

Every year thousands of Indian children are sold into labour by their parents.

 

 

Children for Sale - 04 Jun 07 - Part 2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xd4szKyAlJ8&feature=channel

Children for Sale - 04 Jun 07 - Part 2

 

Every year thousands of Indian children are sold into labour by their parents.

 

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Children at Work - Guatemala

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UesTUelRJGw&NR=1

Thousands of young children are forced to work in the dangerous firework industry, risking their lives and health to make money for their impoverished families.

A tiny girl moans in agony. Her body is a patchwork of raw sores. Six year old Martha was badly burnt by a firework wick. "She screams and cries every night," sighs her mother. The family need her to work and cannot afford the doctor to heal her. Young children like Martha are employed in this labour intensive, dangerous work. Exposed to explosive chemicals like potassium nitrate and gunpowder, with no controls to regulate health and safety. Accidents happen on a regular basis. But with over 80% of Guatemalans living on less than $2 a day, the money the children bring in is desperately needed.

Guatemala women targeted by violent street gangs - 04 Aug 09

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fG6Gj_1jbbk&feature=channel

 

Guatemala's murder rate is one of the highest in Latin America. Official figures show that an average of 17 people are killed there every day.

The number of women murdered is also rising rapidly. Authorities blame the killings on street gangs.

Rights groups say the government is not doing enough to protect women. Culturally, women are seen as inferior to men, so there are fewer consequences for crimes against them. Teresa Bo reports from Guatemala City.

 

 

 

Video Shows Child Prostitutes, Hundreds Arrested

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7TxjarKeNQA&feature=related

 

SelectPlusVideo Shows Child Prostitutes, Hundreds ArrestedVideo Shows Child Prostitutes, Hundreds ArrestedThe Associated PressIn a five-day, 16-city crackdown, the FBI says hundreds of people were arrested as "Operation Cross Country" wraps up five years of similar stings targeting a network of pimps who force children into prostitution. (June 26)[Notes:ANCHOR VOICE] Hundreds of people are in custody in what the FBI calls a five-day roundup of a network of pimps who force children into prostitution.SOT: Robert Mueller, FBI Director: "this operation known as operation "cross-country" included take-down operations in 16 cities across the country and led to the removal of 21 children from the cycle of victimisation."The agency also released this video it says shows some of the children working at a truck stop in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania. The government says runaways are preyed upon by an organized network of pimps who lure them in with shelter or drugs.SOT: Ernie Allen, CEO of National Centre for Missing and Exploited Children: "This is organised crime, not mafia, not La Cosa Nostra, but organised crime nonetheless. These kids are commodities for sale or trade. There is a network, they are trafficked, moved from city to city for the financial gain of those who use, abuse, and control them."In all 345 people were arrested including 290 adult prostitutes. The FBI says this operation rescued 21 children.  The Associated Press

Cheated of Childhood - Russia

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJ39fZWkgnM&NR=1

Russia's metro stations have become home to a generation of street children, who survive by begging or prostitution.

At first sight, 11 year old Yuriy and his 13 year old friend Max look like normal, happy children. But after family problems forced them to leave home, they've been reduced to living on the streets. "For me, the most dangerous thing about living on the street is paedophiles," states Max. "I know a lot of people who have been abused." Despite this risk, both boys would rather remain homeless than return to their families. Max and Yuriy are just two of the millions of children thought to be living on the streets. Once homeless, many children turn to glue sniffing and become infected with HIV. The issue of street children is a relatively new problem for Russia. The collapse of communism triggered many family breakdowns, driving children as young as seven onto the streets. The fear is that if something is not done to help them now, it may be too late to save future generations.

 

Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Iraq women and girl refugees turn to a shamed prostitution after fathers, husbands are killed

  • Iraq refugee prostitution - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X2TCDVxqIV4&feature=related

Children of Poverty in Haiti - Instead of giving them love, the government acknowledges that child slavery is part of the social system.

  • Child prostitution in Haiti  - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6bXZEJjkt4g&NR=1
  • Child Slavery in Haiti - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fnklOtfJRSE&feature=related

 

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Professor Investigates Femicide in Guatemala

Roselyn Costantino, associate professor of Spanish and women’s studies, spent nine days in Guatemala this August as a member of the fact-finding delegation, Women’s Right to Live, of the Guatemala Human Rights Commission/USA. During her time there, Costantino investigated the surge of femicide, the murder of women because of their gender. Since the year 2000, more than 4,500 females in Guatemala, ranging in age from 7 – 75, have been kidnapped, tortured, raped, and killed. Less than 2 percent of the murders are investigated, and even less go to trial or result in a conviction.

As part of the GHRC/USA Delegation, Costantino traveled to urban centers, remote rural towns, and highland villages to meet with women’s civic organizations and leaders at women’s health and domestic violence centers as well as with parents of murder victims and those who survived kidnapping, torture, and rape. The Delegation also met with governmental officials, the head of the Gender Section of the Guatemala Human Rights Ombudsman Office, and officers of the U.S. Embassy and USAID. Each visit included discussion on the failure of the Guatemala State to adequately respond to the murders and what United States government and citizens can do to pressure Guatemalan officials to act.

This was Costantino’s second trip to Guatemala to investigate femicide. You can find out more on the topic by reading her article, “Femicide, Impunity, and Citizenship: The Old and the New in the Struggle for Justice in Guatemala” at www.personal.psu.edu/rxc19/guatemala.html

 

Punished for being a woman...

 

 

 

Afghan Women Hiding For Their Lives

By Atia Abawi  9/24/09
CNN    http://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/asiapcf/09/23/afghanistan.women.abuse/index.html?iref=mpstoryview



KABUL, Afghanistan (CNN) -- Shameen's brown eyes seem lost as she thinks about the one day she wants to forget, but it is all she can think about.

Nearly 90 percent of Afghan women suffer from domestic abuse, according to the U.N.

Still traumatized, she recounts the events that led her to a safe house in Kabul.

She was raped and nearly stabbed to death by her husband just seven days before we met her.

Her lips are quivering and her eyes full of fear.

"He forced himself on me," she said. "All I could do was scream."

She was married off 15 years ago when she was a teenager.

Throughout those years she was tortured and abused, suffering daily beatings with an electrical wire or the metal end of a hammer.

This was her normal life.

"He chased after me with a hammer. He said if I made any noise he would put holes through me," Shameen said.

Shameen and her husband could not conceive a child. And in Afghan society, it seems, the blame always falls on the woman.

After one severe beating, she ran from her home and to the police station. Her husband promised the police he would not attack her anymore, so she gave in and agreed to go back home with him.

Days later, Shameen's husband took her on a trip to visit her sister's grave -- a 15-year-old sister who was burned to death for displeasing her husband.

Shameen says her younger sister was 11 years old when she was forced to marry an older man. He would beat and abuse her until one day he killed her.

As Shameen walked along the graveyard with her husband he took her near a shrine where he forced her to the ground, lifted her burqa and raped her. He then threatened her with a knife and asked her who was going to help her now. She was screaming as he slashed her throat and body.

A passerby saved her.

Read more at

http://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/asiapcf/09/23/afghanistan.women.abuse/index.html?iref=mpstoryview

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"In the 19th century, the paramount moral challenge was slavery. In the 20th century, it was totalitarianism. In this century, it is the brutality inflicted on so many women and girls around the globe: sex trafficking, acid attacks, bride burnings and mass rape," say Kristof and WuDunn.

 

 

 

New York Time's Magazine, http://www.nytimes.com/pages/magazine/ week of 8/23/09   is dedicated to highlighting issues facing women in the developing world, particularly violence against women. The magazine previews Pulitzer Prize-winning journalists Nicholas D. Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn's upcoming book, "Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide" - to be released September 8 - explores issues surrounding women living in poverty, chronicling the lives of women who've faced extreme abuse - and overcome it.

 

 

 

In "Half the Sky" and on the New York Times' website, Kristof and WuDunn highlight the work of Women Thrive Worldwide as a group they've seen in action supporting women in developing countries.  www.WomenThrive.org             (Contributed by McKenzie)

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The Brides Of Death In Yemen

September 14th, 2009 by Fred Stopsky

She was an eleven year old girl from a poor family in Yemen whose father was suffering from kidney failure and there was scant food in the house. Fawziya Abdullah Youssef was compelled by the family to drop out of school and become the bride of an older man. Within a year she had become pregnant since in Yemen there are no laws banning marriages of young girls who have not even reached a secondary school level of education. As the world remembered the tragic events of September 11, 2001, a “minor death” occurred in Yemen when the twelve year old died as she tried giving birth to a baby. The baby also died.

The Organization for Childhood Protection (Seya) in Yemen noted, “the case of Fawziya illustrates the t ragedy of those whom we call ‘the brides of death’ who are little girls less than 15 years old, forced into marriage, mostly due to financial reasons.”

It was just another death in the afternoon in Yemen.

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Congo (http://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/africa/08/11/congo.rape/index.html?iref=mpstoryview#cnnSTCText)

  • Photographer Sherrlyn Borkgren met an 8 year-old girl who detailed being raped by soldiers...
  • "Two soldiers nabbed her, put a bag over her head and pulled her into the bushes"
  • Aid worker: Congo "is one of the worst places in the world to be a woman or girl"
  • UN: 200,000 women, girls raped in Democratic Republic of Congo in last 12 years

 

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U.S. Tribal Domestic Violence

The U.S. government estimates one in every four women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime.

 

 

  • An estimated 1.3 million women are victims of physical assault by an intimate partner each year.
  • U.S. government statistics reveal one in six women will experience an attempted or completed rape at some time in her life.
  • Approximately 500,000 women are estimated to be victims of some form of rape or sexual assault each year in the United States.
  • Alaska Native and American Indian women are more likely to experience sexual assault and domestic violence than are women from other racial or ethnic groups.
  • American Indians are twice as likely to experience sexual assault crimes compared to all other races, and one in three Indian women reports having been raped during her lifetime.

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Exploitation

  • Spanish police have arrested an 18-year-old for allegedly trying to sell nude photographs of his 11-year-old sister in exchange for a car, police told CNN on Wednesday.

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Major United States University

  • Over 1000 rapes are 'reported' each year at this Big 10 college where the women are silenced and athletes are frequently protected

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Ignorance Spread:  'Virgin Cure' - Raping a virgin is considered a way to rid oneself of the AIDS virus
(www.scienceinafrica.co.za/2002/april/virgin.htmwww.scienceinafrica.co.za/2002/april/virgin.htm)

  • Nearly 60 children are raped every day in South Africa
  • So-called "Virgin Cure" prevents/cures HIV/Aids
  • The number of children being defiled in Zambia has continued to increase dramatically because of a widespread belief that having sex with a virgin will cure HIV/AIDS; this mis-information is mainly spread by local traditional healers.

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Long Island sex slave ring lured illegal immigrants with waitress jobs:
  http://www.nydailynews.com/news/ny_crime/2009/08/11/2009-08-11_3_busted_in_li_bar_hookers_operation_lured_illegal_aliens_to_ring_feds.html#ixzz0NvPDSFkT

  • Three Long Island bar bosses were charged Monday with forcing dozens of illegal aliens as young as 17 into prostitution at seedy taverns.
  • A brother-and-sister team and a manager are accused of luring the women, most of whom are Central American, to work in their bars, then ordering them to perform sex acts on customers. 
  • "They lured innocent young women with promises of legitimate jobs and the American Dream," said an Immigration and Customs Enforcement official. "Once the victims arrived, their dreams turned to nightmares."

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Insanity beyond belief

  • A Connecticut hotel, where a woman was raped at gunpoint in front of her children, says the victim was careless and negligent.  The papers filed last month in Superior Court by the Stamford Marriott Hotel & Spa say the victim "failed to exercise due care for her own safety and the safety of her children and proper use of her senses and facilities.  Prosecutors say Gary Fricker assaulted the woman in her minivan in the hotel's parking garage in front of her two children, then ages 3 and 5.

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Miscellaneous
- Women vs Women

  • A grand jury in northern California on Monday indicted a former Sunday school teacher on charges of kidnapping, murder and rape in the death of an 8-year-old girl. Sandra Cantu's body was found in a suitcase in an irrigation pond near where she lived.
  • Melissa Huckaby, 28, is accused of killing 8-year-old Sandra Cantu, who disappeared on March 27 in Tracy, California. Her body was found April 6 in a suitcase in an irrigation pond near the mobile home park where her family lived. Huckaby and her daughter, who played with Sandra, also lived in the mobile home park

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WHY...

Why this aberrant behavior?  Why is this savage attack on women going on?  Is it fear?  Is it hate?  Sociopaths? Psychopaths? Learned Behavior? Culture?  Just the way things are?

  • Some call it culture.  The ancient law in some countries that lets a man own a woman.
  • Some call it warfare in backward countries.  The idea is to kill or maim the women and young girls, so there will be no more children or men to fight the wars.
  • Some consider women and young girls spoils of war
  • Aid worker: Congo "is one of the worst places in the world to be a woman or girl"

Rape is painful, humiliating, soul destroying event.  It is devastating for a grown woman; an adult who has had previous sex.  It is deplorable beyond words to think that a child suffers the savage rape when their tiny bodies are not yet grown.  What is the answer?  What is the question?  Where do we begin as more and more of our precious children and women are defiled?

This site was created to honor the precious creation of women and children.  It is not to say that men are not equally as precious, because for the most part, they are. I encourage a man of courage to stand up for the good caring men of the world.  But one can not give due diligence to the subject if a focus is not created.  And our focus is women and children.

We need to replace the horrible darkness of abuse with light!  The stories will be told to cleanse the wound, to allow the virulent pus to drain so that the body, mind, and spirit can be healed.

 

We want to create a safe haven for the children - it is their birthright - their mother's obligation, either through personal care or adopting them out to a loving home.  There is no reason for the abuse of our children.  There is no reason for abuse of women.  We have but once to walk through the earth in this body - make it the best for yourself, your loved ones and for all you touch.

This site is designed to be a voice for women, offering understanding, hope and healing, not just for ourselves but for our children,our husbands, our mothers, our sisters...anyone who has been touched by the anger and hate toward this beautiful, gentle resource that God blessed the earth with.

Welcome to Voice 4 Women. 

 

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Protect Yourself...

 

 

 

 

MYSPACE: A Must Read for All

EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ ALL OF THIS and HAVE CHILDREN READ IT TOO!


After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:

ByAngel213:
Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!

GoTo123:
LOL You watch too much TV.. Why would someone be following you?
Don't you live in a safe neighborhood?

ByAngel213:
Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.

GoTo123:
Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have you?

ByAngel213:
Of course not.. I'm not stupid you know.

GoTo123:
Did you have a softball game after school today?

ByAngel213:
Yes and we won!!

GoTo123:
That's great! Who did you play?

ByAngel213:
We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL

GoTo123:
What is your team called?

ByAngel213:
We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.

GoTo1 23:
Did you pitch?

ByAngel213:
No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!

GoTo123:
Catch you later.. Bye

Meanwhile.......GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.

Her name: Shannon
Birthday: Jan.. 3, 1985
Age: 13
State where she lived: North Carolina

Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the Canton Junior High School . She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.

Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.


By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.

Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.

He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him.. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.

After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.

Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon 's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.

Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon 's house.. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.

Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.

"Shannon, come here,"
 her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.

"Sit down,"
 her father began, "this man has just told us a most interesting story about you."

Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!

"Do you know who I am, Shannon ?"
 the man asked.

"No,"
  Shannon answered.

"I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123."


Shannon was stunned. "That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14. And he lives in Michigan !"

The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You see, Shannon , there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators.. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze."

Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don't live in Michigan ?"

He laughed. "No, I live in Raleigh . It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?"

She nodded.

"I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again.. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?"

"It's a promise!"


That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom all knelt down together and thanked God for protecting Shannon from what could have been a tragic situation..


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EVEN FORWARD THIS TO PEOPLE WITHOUT KIDS SO THEY CAN SEND IT TO FRIENDS THAT DO HAVE CHILDREN OR GRANDCHILDREN
 

 

 

 

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